Then he broke up in May. Few days in relationship with him and ex come back to me full of ‘love’ and asked me back. You don’t want to get back together with your ex before 4-6 months have passed anyway. If you did that, they might come back to you because they are trying to ease the guilt they feel. 100%… And if I’m being honest here, from my experience I’d rather be dumped then being the dumper and I’ll tell you why. Getting back with an ex after years is possible. Guilt: If you handled the breakup poorly by trying to talk your ex into getting back together, you likely tried to make them feel guilty about how they hurt you by breaking up with you.. Months later I met new guy. My ex came back. But unless you've committed some of the typical post-breakup mistakes, getting back with an ex is not dependent on you—but rather on your ex and the months and years of time. You are probably in a lot of pain right now, so you likely won’t believe what I’m about to say. The love letter is so true – thanjs for writing it up plainly. Twice. Then came back in early April when I went NC. There are also exes who come back in order to make things right between the two of you as well as to alleviate any hard feelings. Came back in June. Chances of hearing from your ex years later are almost as high as hearing from him or her in the first month. For example, perhaps the two of you ended on bad terms or you were completely blindsided by the breakup, and your ex may feel compelled to come back and apologize and/or set the record straight once and for all. He broke up with me in March last year. And once I realised this was how my ex-friend ‘loved’ me (oh they told me they did things for me out of ‘love’ like telling me they had thought about getting me a present, but not actually getting it, not that it would have mattered because gifts are not my language i.e. I worked on myself. But there are some … The reason for that is because dumpers need a lot of alone time to live their life the way they had envisioned. The one who told you how much you meant to … My ex broke up with me first time due to codependence. I know if I stick to NC he will come back … All the advice on this forum will help you move on. Your ex might have left you because they felt like it, and knew that when they decided to come back in their own time, you would be willing to take them again. I knew after so much failing it won’t work with him, also I … Alden says May 10, 2020 . Yeah, that one, the guy who ripped your heart out and then stomped on it -- and then was adamant about how he wanted to "stay friends." However, 6 months later, we broke up again yesterday. As he already left me 2 times and didn’t care about me for so many months I rejected him. The Real Reason Why Your Exes Come Back When You're Over ... ... *eyeroll* It's been over 8 months now and we are still apart. 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